๐ˆ๐ฌ ๐€๐›๐ฎ๐ง๐๐š๐ง๐œ๐ž ๐๐ž๐œ๐จ๐ฆ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐š ๐๐š๐ง๐ž ๐š๐ง๐ ๐๐š๐ข๐ง ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐๐š๐ซ๐ž๐ง๐ญ๐ฌ?

In today's world, many parents strive to provide their children with the best gadgets, facilities, luxuries, and materialistic comforts. However, this abundance might be turning into a double-edged sword.

Here's why:

๐‘ถ๐’—๐’†๐’“๐’Š๐’๐’…๐’–๐’๐’ˆ๐’†๐’๐’„๐’† ๐’Š๐’ ๐‘ฎ๐’‚๐’…๐’ˆ๐’†๐’•๐’”
From smartphones to gaming consoles, children are surrounded by a plethora of electronic devices. While these can be educational, they often lead to distractions and reduced attention spans.

The ease of access to information and entertainment can deter children from cultivating patience and critical thinking skills.

๐‘ด๐’‚๐’•๐’†๐’“๐’Š๐’‚๐’๐’Š๐’”๐’•๐’Š๐’„ ๐‘ด๐’Š๐’๐’…๐’”๐’†๐’•
Providing every material desire can foster a sense of entitlement. Children might grow up expecting everything to come effortlessly, undermining the value of hard work and perseverance.

๐‘พ๐’‰๐’†๐’ ๐’๐’–๐’™๐’–๐’“๐’Š๐’†๐’” ๐’ƒ๐’†๐’„๐’๐’Ž๐’† ๐’•๐’‰๐’† ๐’๐’๐’“๐’Ž, ๐’‚๐’‘๐’‘๐’“๐’†๐’„๐’Š๐’‚๐’•๐’Š๐’๐’ ๐’‡๐’๐’“ ๐’”๐’Š๐’Ž๐’‘๐’๐’† ๐’‹๐’๐’š๐’” ๐’…๐’Š๐’Ž๐’Š๐’๐’Š๐’”๐’‰๐’†๐’”.


๐‘น๐’†๐’…๐’–๐’„๐’†๐’… ๐‘ด๐’๐’•๐’Š๐’—๐’‚๐’•๐’Š๐’๐’
When children are handed everything on a silver platter, their intrinsic motivation to achieve goals can wane.

The satisfaction of earning something through effort is replaced by the expectation of immediate gratification. This can hinder their ability to set and strive for personal and professional aspirations.

๐‘บ๐’๐’„๐’Š๐’‚๐’ ๐‘ซ๐’Š๐’”๐’„๐’๐’๐’๐’†๐’„๐’•
Excessive focus on material possessions can lead to a superficial understanding of relationships and success.

Children may equate self-worth with what they own rather than who they are, affecting their social skills and empathy.

As parents, it's crucial to strike a balance. Providing for our childrenโ€™s needs is important, but so is teaching them the value of effort and resilience. ๐‘ฌ๐’๐’„๐’๐’–๐’“๐’‚๐’ˆ๐’† ๐’•๐’‰๐’†๐’Ž ๐’•๐’ ๐’”๐’†๐’• ๐’ˆ๐’๐’‚๐’๐’”, ๐’‡๐’‚๐’„๐’† ๐’„๐’‰๐’‚๐’๐’๐’†๐’๐’ˆ๐’†๐’”, ๐’‚๐’๐’… ๐’‚๐’‘๐’‘๐’“๐’†๐’„๐’Š๐’‚๐’•๐’† ๐’˜๐’‰๐’‚๐’• ๐’•๐’‰๐’†๐’š ๐’‰๐’‚๐’—๐’†.

Let's cultivate a future generation that values experiences over possessions, effort over entitlement, and hard work over complacency.

Share:
Dr Deepa Khemani
Author

Dr Deepa Khemani

Dr. Deepa Khemani is a renowned Parenting Coach dedicated to empowering parents with effective strategies and insights. Her expertise helps families build stronger connections and navigate parenting challenges, fostering both personal and professional growth for a more harmonious family life.

Request A Call Back

Unlock your parenting potential with expert guidance. Contact Dr. Deepa Khemani today to begin your journey towards personal growth and family harmony. Transform your life, one step at a time.